Should i get married?

I would vote for waiting until your finish your residency. Going through a medical residency program is extremely stressful and to combine that with being a newlywed who is having to live apart from your husband would make things more difficult. The first few years in a marriage are stressful as well. You'll need to be together to learn how to live as husband and wife successfully and negotiate the ups and downs that comes with marriage. Three years sounds like such a long time right now but it will go by in a flash as busy as you will be. At 25, you don't yet need to be worrying about ticking clocks. It sounds like you are two intelligent, level headed young people and I'm sure you can make it work for a couple more years.